What is the Reason a Man Needs Space? Understanding When He Pulls Back.

Relationships can be wonderful and fulfilling one day and the very next feel like they're completely falling apart. Many women experience this when the man they're with decides he needs time or distance. He'll typically be very compassionate about it and say things like "it's me, not you" or "I just need some breathing room, it's not a break up." You want to believe with everything that it's not the beginning of the end of the relationship but it very well could be. In order to deal with this situation effectively you need to fully understand the reason a man needs space. Once you do, you can take the necessary steps to fix the problem and get the relationship back on track.

The main reason a man needs space is that his needs are no longer being fulfilled in the relationship. Something has shifted and his way of dealing with it is to pull back. Some men are vocal about this and will tell the woman they're involved with that they need some time or space. Other men just pull back without an explanation. Regardless of how your guy did it, it stings and it does feel like a rejection.

Trying to determine what happened to make your guy need space can be a bit of a challenge. If he's not willing to share exactly what changed, you're going to be left to your own devices to try and come up with a reason for it. Men in dating situations are often very fickle and can change their opinion of a woman based on one small mistake or error in judgment on her part. A few examples of things that men find unappealing are when a woman shares what she's feeling too soon in the relationship, when she crowds his space or when she tries to change him. Men are also notorious for changing the dynamic of a relationship if a woman has slept with them too soon or if she starts fishing for a commitment after only a few dates.

If you don't want to lose the relationship and you believe you know the reason a man need space, there's still an opportunity to undo the damage and fix the relationship. Try to avoid doing whatever you feel may have caused him to pull back. Keep things fun and casual. He'll let his defenses down again and you'll have another opportunity to show him just how irresistible you really are.

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Playful Kiss ...(Strictly For Married Couple Only)

PLAYFUL KISSING IS MORE THAN A KISS, IT'S ABOUT MAKING KISSING FUN! Here are 25 playful kisses including playful French kissing. How many of these kisses have you tried so far?

Remember kissing when you were in high school, or college and you experimented with different props or methods to add to your kissing? Well, perhaps some of you think kissing it is immature now, but it really isn’t. One thing for sure kissing and playful kissing does depend on the mutual participation of your kissing partner. Some of these kisses are unique and different. All of these kisses are playful. Some people will love these playful kisses and others will not even try them. But if you and your playful kissing partner are willing to explore the art of playful kissing, you will find kissing is still a very exciting and fun playful experience. These playful kisses may not be something you want to introduce on a first date, but it is a way to see if you have a fun loving and exploring partner. So why don’t give these kisses a try. Pucker up and let the fun begin with a list of playful kissing.

SWEET KISSES
The Playful Chocolate Kiss

This is best done with a smooth, creamy chocolate that melts easily in your mouth. Don’t use chocolate with nuts or crispies. You want the kiss to be sensual, not crunchy! Just take a bite and let chocolate do the work for you. Once it starts to melt, swirl your tongues together. Swallow a little. MMMMMM.....delicious. This is a very smooth and creamy kiss, but it can end up in places you don’t intend to and can be messy. But if you are up to savoring creamy chocolate and sensual kissing, try this pleasurable way sharing your lips, tongue, mouth and wherever else it ends up.

Cotton Candy Kiss

This is a very sweet kiss but the melting sensation of the cotton candy makes your mouth tingle with sweetness. Take a piece of cotton candy. Press it gently in your partners mouth. Lean in and start nibbling on it until you can push it into your partners mouth. Let it melt between your tongues. Start kissing and the sweet taste makes you crave for more........kissing or cotton candy? Or maybe both! It is sugar and spice and everything nice. It could be somewhat sticky if you use too much cotton candy, but you can enjoy using your tongue to remove any leftover sugar. Just keep licking and licking. This kiss may not be for everyone but it sure is a sweet surprise for those who partake.

How about a game of the Jolly Rancher Kiss?

Use any flavor of a Jolly Rancher, but any hard candy will do. Small pieces are better so if you break it into a few pieces, you can play several times! Place a piece of of the candy in your mouth. Have your partner place a piece in their mouth, but a different flavor. Now in this kissing game you will be using your tongue to see who can get other flavor from your partner while keeping your own. This is certainly different from the game of keep away you played as a kid. See if your partner is up to the challenge!

The Pop Rock Kiss

We were all curious about the craze over this candy! Well, when you tried it the sensation of those little pebbles exploding flavor crystals in your mouth was quite fun! Now, just think of double the fun when you and your partner each pour a few pebbles in your mouths and start to kiss. Viola.....you don’t have to wait to feel the excitement of the 4^th of July. Let the fireworks begin!

Lollipop Kiss

Take a popular lollipop, cherry flavored works best. Start swirling your tongue around the candy until the flavor has spread on your tongue. Gently start to lick your partners lips. Lick the bottom lip, then the top. Go back to licking the lollipop. Share the candy with your partner. Put the lollipop between you and both start licking it. Take it away and start savoring each other’s lips and smack your lips together. Don’t forget to come up for air

Caramel Kiss

So by now you can see the trend of sweet kissing. Use your imagination! Use something sweet. Caramel is another sweet, creamy method of making that kiss enticing. Use caramel sauce that you use with ice cream. It is creamier and not chewy. The thick, creamy, caramel will start to melt like butter when both of your hot mouths suck on a teaspoon of it. Take a spoon of caramel and gently use your tongue to slowly lick the contents of the spoon. Now that you have the creamy substance in your mouth, share it with your partner by enveloping her mouth with yours. What a sweet, creamy kiss!

Strawberries and Cream

We couldn’t forget one of the all time favorites. Exchanging strawberries with whipping cream. This kissing can be very sensual. You never know where the cream might end up. Don’t count calories during this kiss. Indulge..... and enjoy the creamy sensational kissing session.

The Bubbly Drink Kiss

Again, use different variations here. Use sodas or even champagne. The more fizz, the better. When you are ready to kiss, sip some bubbly and keep some in your mouth. When your ready to kiss, then dribble some into your partners mouth. Not in a slobbering fashion, but a gentle release of the fluid from your mouth to your partners. Don’t forget to nibble each other’s lips and suck on each other’s tongues. You can have a lot if you do more sharing than actually drinking.

PUT THE MOVE-ON

Had enough with the props? Then try different methods or positions for your kiss. These are just a few with simple variations. Want to try something new to excite that kiss, keep on reading.

Warning: Try only when your partner is willing to participate.

Nose Nuzzle Kiss.

Your nose has a lot of sensitive nerve endings. Kissing your partners nose could make their toes curl. Of course, an unwilling partner may hurl at the thought but we’re not talking about the weak, we’re talking about having fun and peaking the sensual feelings of different parts of your body. When you are both in the mood, don’t forget this sensitive area. Use common sense and don’t kiss there during a common cold!!

Lap Kiss

While your partner is laying with his/her head in your lap, lean over and kiss her/him. Your bottom lip will be on your partner's top lip and vise versa. You can even French kiss while in this position. This kiss is a playful kiss, and it can lead to much more.

The 911 Kiss

When kissing your partner you breath in each other’s air. Don’t do this too long since you could pass out. Don’t forget to blow.........out of course.

Tongue Suckers Kiss.

Insert your tongue into your partner’s mouth deeply. Have them suckle it back and forth. Start very slow at first then increase your tempo. You’ll find that this is very exciting and may create that gyrating feeling in other places of your body.

Take My Breath Away Kiss

In a hot moment - creates anticipation of further excitement. Barely touch your lips with your partner’s lips being slightly parted. Then take your partner’s breath away into your mouth. Then have your partner reciprocate. This can be a very teasing sort of kiss and builds up passion quickly.

Tongue Ring Kiss

If you and your partner have tongue rings, explore each other’s ring with each other’s tongue, but you could be headed for problems if they get entangled. So precaution should be used when twirling tongues. Also, many people don’t like kissing someone with a tongue piercing. So if you have one, be sure to let your partner know before the kiss. Most likely your partner already will know, but just be courteous and reap the rewards!

Underwater Kiss

While your swimming under water, have your partner take in extra air before going underway. When you start to kiss, release the extra air into your partners mouth. This will give you a few more seconds of kissing before rising back to the surface.

Moving in for the Kiss

More like a stalking game. Your kissing partner may be sitting on the bed, sofa or chair. You move in from behind and wrap your arms around your partner. Then you lean over and give the kiss. The kiss can be a quick kiss or multiply into a French kiss that expresses your love. This kiss is good for couples who have built somewhat of a trust between each other. A new partner may not get the right impression of your actions. So don’t start off on the wrong foot.

The Lucky Dog Kiss.

No, you are not going to kiss your dog, but this kiss may not be for everyone. Your going to gently lick your partner from the chin, over the nose and around the eyes. (NOT IN THE EYE!!!) Your partner’s face will be very moist. Don’t slobber, but use moisture as needed to explore your partner’s face like a dog licks and explores.

I Have Something For You Surprise Kiss

When your partner is lying down on a sofa, bed, or napping in a lounge chair, quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips, then intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes and responds. What a great way to be woken up!!!

Vacuum Kissing

This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're sucking the air from your partner. Gently suck on their tongue and lips.

Butterfly Kissing

Also known as the flutter kiss. Imagine a butterfly wisping their featherweight wings in flight. Press your smooth cheeks against those of your partner and flutter your eyelashes against them. Then use your tongue in the same fashion, fluttering it inside your partners mouth.

Breaking the Ice Kiss

Pass an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing. You can also kiss other parts of the body. It fun. Coke and a great way to warn up your partner.

Blow me a Kiss

Start kissing your partner and then gently lick their lips with just the tip of your tongue. Then blow on the place you just moistened. This will cause a very tingling feeling that will intensify with the air that you just blew. This is a good practice for some other very private kissing you might do later on.

The Neck Kiss

This is great way to make your kissing partner’s toes curl. Give light kisses on the back of the neck and down the front of the neck. The neck is very sensitive and a good source for pleasure sensors. There are so many ways to kiss your partner’s neck. Use any of the techniques that you might use on your partner’s mouth. By kissing the neck, it shows your partner that you are also attentive to other parts of their body and their pleasure zones. No matter what you do, always remember that kissing is not only a great way to get things started but it also helps to maintain an enduring relationship.

Marathon Kiss

Are you in the competitive spirit? Get the time out! See how long you can kiss without stopping. What a great way to have a make-out session.

The Hickey Kiss

Yes, those sucking kisses that cause those marks where you kissed. Yup, it is called a "hickey". Be sure that your partner doesn’t have an interview or important appointment the next day. Hickeys are a fun way to show you’ve been kissed and had a lot of fun doing it. But, there’s a warning, this kind of kissing should not be done if a person has a problem with bleeding or bruises very easy. By the way, the marks usually go away in a few days.

Okay, now it’s time for you to explore!

As you can see the kinds of kisses listed only touch a small portion of the numerous ways that you can kiss. Just have fun and find that special someone who will reciprocate. Enjoy the passion that the two of you can make. Hey, write back and tell us what your favorite kiss is! We just might add it to this list.

After reading this informative playful kissing site, we hope you will use one of the many dating sites listed here and find that special person! Wow, then you can use the Wedding Day Kiss.......Now that is a kiss!

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Loyal dog refuses to leave injured mate

A video of a shivering dog staying loyally by the side of a fellow canine amid the devastation in northern Japan has emerged as the country faces nuclear crisis and thousands of people left homeless.

The brown-and-white spaniel was found dirty and shivering as it approached reporters in Ibaraki prefecture.

It was filmed barking at them before returning to another lighter-coloured dog that was lying motionless amidst a tsunami-ravaged landscape.

The dog was filmed guarding its apparently injured companion before placing a protective paw over it

The spaniel, wearing a silver collar, was filmed guarding its prone and apparently injured companion before placing a protective paw over it as the reporters discussed what to do.

Moments later, the injured dog lifted its head and shortly afterwards sat up.

The reporters can be heard in the clip discussing the fate of the dogs.

"It is amazing how they survived the tremendous earthquake and tsunami. It's just amazing that they survived through this all."

Both dogs have reportedly been rescued since the video was filmed. The injured dog has been treated by a vet in Mito while the spaniel is at a shelter in the same town.

Watch the video here.

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Kata-Kata Tentang Cinta

Cinta tidak pernah meminta, ia sentiasa memberi, cinta membawa penderitaan, tetapi tidak pernah berdendam, tak pernah membalas dendam. Di mana ada cinta di situ ada kehidupan; manakala kebencian membawa kepada kemusnahan.~ Mahatma Ghandi,

Tuhan memberi kita dua kaki untuk berjalan, dua tangan untuk memegang, dua telinga untuk mendengar dan dua mata untuk melihat. Tetapi mengapa Tuhan hanya menganugerahkan sekeping hati pada kita? Karena Tuhan telah memberikan sekeping lagi hati pada seseorang untuk kita mencarinya. Itulah namanya Cinta.

Ada 2 titis air mata mengalir di sebuah sungai. Satu titis air mata tu menyapa air mata yg satu lagi,” Saya air mata seorang gadis yang mencintai seorang lelaki tetapi telah kehilangannya. Siapa kamu pula?”. Jawab titis air mata kedua tu,” Saya air mata seorang lelaki yang menyesal membiarkan seorang gadis yang mencintai saya berlalu begitu saja.”

Cinta sejati adalah ketika dia mencintai orang lain, dan kamu masih mampu tersenyum, sambil berkata: aku turut bahagia untukmu.

Jika kita mencintai seseorang, kita akan sentiasa mendoakannya walaupun dia tidak berada disisi kita.

Jangan sesekali mengucapkan selamat tinggal jika kamu masih mau mencoba. Jangan sesekali menyerah jika kamu masih merasa sanggup. Jangan sesekali mengatakan kamu tidak mencintainya lagi jika kamu masih tidak dapat melupakannya.

Perasaan cinta itu dimulai dari mata, sedangkan rasa suka dimulai dari telinga. Jadi jika kamu mahu berhenti menyukai seseorang, cukup dengan menutup telinga. Tapi apabila kamu Coba menutup matamu dari orang yang kamu cintai, cinta itu berubah menjadi titisan air mata dan terus tinggal dihatimu dalam jarak waktu yang cukup lama.

Cinta datang kepada orang yang masih mempunyai harapan walaupun mereka telah dikecewakan. Kepada mereka yang masih percaya, walaupun mereka telah dikhianati. Kepada mereka yang masih ingin mencintai, walaupun mereka telah disakiti sebelumnya dan kepada mereka yang mempunyai keberanian dan keyakinan untuk membangunkan kembali kepercayaan.

Jangan simpan kata-kata cinta pada orang yang tersayang sehingga dia meninggal dunia , lantaran akhirnya kamu terpaksa catatkan kata-kata cinta itu pada pusaranya . Sebaliknya ucapkan kata-kata cinta yang tersimpan dibenakmu itu sekarang selagi ada hayatnya.

Mungkin Tuhan menginginkan kita bertemu dan bercinta dengan orang yang salah sebelum bertemu dengan orang yang tepat, kita harus mengerti bagaimana berterima kasih atas kurniaan itu.

Cinta bukan mengajar kita lemah, tetapi membangkitkan kekuatan. Cinta bukan mengajar kita menghinakan diri, tetapi menghembuskan kegagahan. Cinta bukan melemahkan semangat, tetapi membangkitkan semangat -Hamka

Cinta dapat mengubah pahit menjadi manis, debu beralih emas, keruh menjadi bening, sakit menjadi sembuh, penjara menjadi telaga, derita menjadi nikmat, dan kemarahan menjadi rahmat.

Sungguh menyakitkan mencintai seseorang yang tidak mencintaimu, tetapi lebih menyakitkan adalah mencintai seseorang dan kamu tidak pernah memiliki keberanian untuk menyatakan cintamu kepadanya.

Hal yang menyedihkan dalam hidup adalah ketika kamu bertemu seseorang yang sangat berarti bagimu. Hanya untuk menemukan bahawa pada akhirnya menjadi tidak bererti dan kamu harus membiarkannya pergi.

Kamu tahu bahwa kamu sangat merindukan seseorang, ketika kamu memikirkannya hatimu hancur berkeping. Dan hanya dengan mendengar kata “Hai” darinya, dapat menyatukan kembali kepingan hati tersebut.

Tuhan ciptakan 100 bahagian kasih sayang. 99 disimpan disisinya dan hanya 1 bahagian diturunkan ke dunia. Dengan kasih sayang yang satu bahagian itulah, makhluk saling berkasih sayang sehingga kuda mengangkat kakinya kerana takut anaknya terpijak.

Kadangkala kamu tidak menghargai orang yang mencintai kamu sepenuh hati, sehinggalah kamu kehilangannya. Pada saat itu, tiada guna sesalan karena perginya tanpa berpatah lagi.

Jangan mencintai seseorang seperti bunga, kerana bunga mati kala musim berganti. Cintailah mereka seperti sungai, kerana sungai mengalir selamanya. Cinta mampu melunakkan besi, menghancurkan batu, membangkitkan yang mati dan meniupkan kehidupan padanya serta membuat budak menjadi pemimpin. Inilah dasyatnya cinta !

Permulaan cinta adalah membiarkan orang yang kamu cintai menjadi dirinya sendiri, dan tidak merubahnya menjadi gambaran yang kamu inginkan. Jika tidak, kamu hanya mencintai pantulan diri sendiri yang kamu temukan di dalam dirinya.

Cinta itu adalah perasaan yang mesti ada pada tiap-tiap diri manusia, ia laksana setitis embun yang turun dari langit,bersih dan suci. Cuma tanahnyalah yang berlain-lainan menerimanya. Jika ia jatuh ke tanah yang tandus,tumbuhlah oleh kerana embun itu kedurjanaan, kedustaan, penipu, langkah serong dan lain-lain perkara yang tercela. Tetapi jika ia jatuh kepada tanah yang subur,di sana akan tumbuh kesuciaan hati, keikhlasan, setia budi pekerti yang tinggi dan lain-lain perangai yang terpuji.~ Hamka

Kata-kata cinta yang lahir hanya sekadar di bibir dan bukannya di hati mampu melumatkan seluruh jiwa raga, manakala kata-kata cinta yang lahir dari hati yang ikhlas mampu untuk mengubati segala luka di hati orang yang mendengarnya.

Kamu tidak pernah tahu bila kamu akan jatuh cinta. namun apabila sampai saatnya itu, raihlah dengan kedua tanganmu,dan jangan biarkan dia pergi dengan sejuta rasa tanda tanya dihatinya

Cinta bukanlah kata murah dan lumrah dituturkan dari mulut ke mulut tetapi cinta adalah anugerah Tuhan yang indah dan suci jika manusia dapat menilai kesuciannya.

Bukan laut namanya jika airnya tidak berombak. Bukan cinta namanya jika perasaan tidak pernah terluka. Bukan kekasih namanya jika hatinya tidak pernah merindu dan cemburu.

Bercinta memang mudah. Untuk dicintai juga memang mudah. Tapi untuk dicintai oleh orang yang kita cintai itulah yang sukar diperoleh. Satu-satunya cara agar kita memperolehi kasih sayang, ialah jangan menuntut agar kita dicintai, tetapi mulailah memberi kasih sayang kepada orang lain tanpa mengharapkan balasan.

Petua Mengubat Hati Yang Luka

1. Lupakan Kenangan Pahit.

Mengaku sajalah yang anda sering merasa sedih sebab banyak kali mengingat kenangan pahit atau selalu kembali ke memori silam yang lalu. Mulai hari ini, tekad untuk melupakan semua itu, Bulatkan azam untuk memfokus kepada masa depan anda, cita-cita anda, keluarga, kerjaya, kewangan, keilmuan dan rakan-rakan. Anda tidak akan dapat melupakan kesemua memori pahit sekaligus, tetapi lakukan sedikit demi sedikit dengan mengalihkan perhatian anda kepada perkara lain. Proses ini mengambil masa, tetapi ia boleh dipercepatkan dengan disiplin diri.

2. Buang Sikap Risau.

Sikap risau boleh menarik nasib tidak baik, masalah dan musibah. Ia juga memberi kesan buruk pada kesihatan anda dari segi fizikal dan mental. Risau membuat anda selalu menjadi sedih dan kecewa, kadang-kadang rasa takut. Untuk buang sikap risau, belajar untuk bertenang dan latih diri anda mengawal emosi.

3. Belajar Menjadi Pemaaf.

Sikap pemaaf dapat membersihkan hati dari perasaan negatif dan emosi-emosi negatif seperti takut, sedih, kecewa. gusar, menyampah, marah, geram, cemburu, tak puas hati, dendam, busuk hati dan lain-lain.

Sebenarnya anda selalu rasa sedih dan kecewa kerana anda tidak memaafkan kesalahan diri anda di masa lalu ataupun anda tidak memaafkan kesalahan orang lain tehadap diri anda satu ketika dulu. Anda juga mungkin susah menerima hakikat perbuatan salah orang lain terhadap diri anda, yang membuat anda sedih, kecewa dan geram.

5. Ketawa, ketawa dan terus ketawa.

Ketawa bukan dibuat-buat, tapi biar ketawa yang benar-benar menggembirakan Anda dan menjadikan Anda girang. Tonton video yang lucu, baca cerita yang lucu, dekatkan diri anda dengan rakan-rakan yang lucu serta cari “funny side” dalam setiap situasi, agar Anda boleh ketawa secara automatik. Ketawa dapat menghilangkan sedih. Buat apa layan kecewa sedangkan anda boleh ketawa?

6. Ubah Fikiran

Kita tak boleh merubah situasi yang boleh membuat kita kecewa, sedih dan murung. Tapi, kita boleh merubah fikiran kita dan apa yang kita fikirkan tentang situasi-situasi tersebut walau seburuk manapun ia. Rahsianya, cari sinar mentari disebalik mendungnya awan. Walaupun perkara tidak berpihak kepada Anda, cari cara bagaimana Anda boleh jumpa nilai-nilai positif di dalamnya. Fikir yang baik-baik saja, kerana ia memberi keuntungan jangka masa panjang. Rezeki anda murah dan segala yang baik-baik datang sendiri pada Anda. Anda menjadi apa yang Anda selalu fikirkan. Buat apa fikir yang buruk sedangkan Anda boleh tarik semua yang baik-baik? Fikir yang buruk, Anda dapat yang buruk jawapnya. Ini hukum alam dinamakan hukum sebab dan akibat. Dalam kata yang lebih advance, itu hukum Law Of Attraction.

7. Hati Mesti ‘Keras’.

Bukan keras sembarangan, maksudnya kekerasan hati,kesabaran yang tinggi, pandai mengawal emosi dan menerima hakikat dengan hati terbuka. Allah menurunkan musibah, permasalahan dan macam-macam lagi bukan sekadar dugaan, tapi balasan pada perbuatan-perbuatan Anda di masa lalu. Buat baik, dibalas baik, begitu juga sebaliknya. Cuba ingat balik kejahatan kecil yang Anda lakukan pada orang lain, mungkin ada walau Anda tak sedar. Itulah perlunya kita bersikap baik dan berfikir yang baik-baik pada semua orang, benda, perkara, situasi dan keadaan. Sebelum masuk tidur, set minda untuk jadi ceria pada keesokan harinya. Lafazkan dengan nada berbisik. Relaks, jangan terlalu mendesak diri.

Selepas bangun tidur, katakan pada diri ini adalah hari yang baru untuk Anda.Tekadkan diri untuk menjadikan hari yang baru tu hari yang baik, sungguh baik, sebaik yang mungkin dari hari yang sebelumnya.

Time Will Tell

Once upon a time there island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love.

One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.

Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
Richness answered, " I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."

"I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."
Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness.

Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you."
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry.

Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.

Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.

Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered,

"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

Love of a Lifetime

Once upon a time there was a teacher and his student lay down under the big tree near the big grass area. Then suddenly the student asked the teacher,

Student : Teacher, I'm confused how we find our soul mate. Can you please help me?
Teacher : "Silent for few second, than he answer" Well, it's pretty hard and easy question..
Student : "THINK HARD" Ha???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don't you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... "Walk straight ahead to the grass field"

A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back..

Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand.
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up. But I didn't realize that I'm in the end of the field, and I hadn't pick any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn't go back.

Teacher : That's what happened in real life.

What is the message of this story?

* Grass --> is people around you
* Beautiful Grass --> is people that attract you
* Grass Field --> is time

In looking for your soul mate, please don't always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember "Time Never Goes Back".... So try to accept what he/she is.