Sunday, March 27, 2011

Differences Is What Attract Boy Towards Girls

After the boy fell in love, he quickly takes actioboy in loven on how to get the girl attention. The main objective is to send the feeling of love from boy to girls. At this point, they started to care about the girls as much as themselves for examples where they normally having lunch, what time they will go back or what kind of favorite color or food their prefer.
The appearance and attitude of girls were a mysterious attraction to the boys. Their differences from boy are main key point that attracted the boys. If the boys were hard, then the girls were soft. If the boys were angular, then the girls were round. If the Boys were cool, then the girls were warm. In other words, their differences seemed to make them complement to each other.
In term of language the girls communicated direct and clear: “We need you power and strength because it can bring us great achievement to us and filling a void deep within our being. Together we could live in obtain unlimited happiness.’ This kind of words encouraged and empowered the boys.
Almost all the girls understand how to convert this message and it all begin with a girls that gives a man a brief look that says you could be the one that made to be and with him she can obtain a great happiness. Generally she actually begin their relationship and encourages boy to come closer because it make the boy feel need it. The girl brief actually very powerful and allow boy to overcome his fears of having a relationship. However, once they started the relationship, it also started problem as well due to the fact that most of the girl doesn’t know how important that send message to him and neglects to send the boy and making them confused.
The boys were very motivated because he thinks that he can make a difference on girl life. Then boys were moving to a new level of stage. They were no longer feel satisfied by just prove themselves that he have feel for her and developing their power to show her. They wanted to use their power and skills in the service girls by giving a lot of stuffs such as impression, goods and also protection. This all begin when boys had developed a new philosophy so called a win-win philosophy. They want to create a world where girls care for them and pay more attention to them.
Love Motivates Boys
boy in love 02After boys fall in love, they will begin planning to take action to win over the girl’s heart. It make a boys feel so alive through glimpsing the girls and they were begin to have unselfish feelings for the first time in their life.
Similarly, when a boy is in love he is encouraged to be the best he can be in order to help his girlfriend. When boy fall in love, he have confident in himself that he is able to make major changes in the girl life. The need that he need is opportunity and by given the opportunity to prove his potential and performance the best of himself. However, when boys felt that he cannot be success or don’t have a chance that he will retreat and back to his himself again.
Generally if a boy is in love, normally he begins to care about his partner that I felt in love with as much as him. He will felt more motivated and feel free to give anything such as feeling of caring, love or protection to his partner. He will assume that his partner problem as he problem include experience what his partner already experienced.
He can easily endure any difficulty only make her happy because anything that can make her happy, it also makes him happy as well. Sometime he struggles become easier in the relationships and also become energized with a higher purpose only to make her happy.
However, this all happening only in his youth that he can be satisfied by walk outserving himself alone, but as grow he matured, his self-pleasure is no longer as satisfying. In order to experience the achievement in winning over his partner, he encouraged by the feel of love from his partner. Although boy needs to receive love, his greatest need is still give love to his partner.
Most common mistakes that boys think is that they actually are not hunger to give love but are starve for it. Their biggest problem in the relationships is that they do not know what they are missing and if do know, they do not how and when to give. In their life, they saw their dad succeed in win over their mum’s heart through giving of love and as result they do not realize that a major source of fulfillment for a boy come through giving of love. In the end the relationships fail, then he finds himself dejected and frustrated over all the stuff that he did. He will stops caring or become least caring to his others and at the same time felt depressed.
In a particular relationship fail he will withdraws himself from relationships or intimacy and become least caring. Generally, he asks himself what all these for and in the end what I can get. He maybe didn’t realize that he has stopped caring because he felt that he didn’t needed anymore. However, most of the boys didn’t realize that by finding someone who needs him, he can start all over again and he encouraged again.
If a boy didn’t felt he succeed in making difference in his partner’s life, then it is difficult for him to continue carry on in his life and relationships. It is difficult to be encouraged when he feel not needed. In order become encouraged again, he only needs to feel valued, trusted, and accepted by his partner.


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Friday, March 25, 2011

Majlis Kesyukuran Kejayaan Deejay Lin

Deejay Lin
KUALA LUMPUR: Majlis kesyukuran sempena kemenangan penyampai SuriaFM, Deejay Lin pada Anugerah Seri Angkasa 2010 bagi kategori Penyampai Radio Wanita Terbaik dan Rancangan Radio Interaktif Terbaik diadakan di restoran Carlos Heaven Food, Kenanga International, di sini, Khamis.
Majlis yang diberi nama Apresiasi Suria Cinta itu turut mengadakan penyampaian hadiah Lagu Berduit Suria FM yang dianjurkan oleh stesen radio itu sejak 28 Februari lalu.
Selain penghargaan kepada Deejay Lin dan penyampaian hadiah, majlis tersebut bertujuan meraikan pendengar setia Suria FM terutama sekali buat mereka yangmenyokong kejayaan Lin.
Segmen 'Suria Cinta- Inspirasi Cinta Anda' yang dikendalikan oleh Lin merupakan salah satu segmen di Suria FM yang mempunyai hit dan rating tinggi bagi jumlah pendengar dan mendapat sambutan orang ramai.
Segmen tersebut banyak mengetengahkan isu cinta selain memutarkan lagu-lagu yang menghiburkan pendengarnya.
Suria FM kini semakin giat menjalankan pelbagai aktiviti 'on-ground'dan juga 'on-air'. Suria FM baru selesai menganjurkan Suriashowdown!Band Kampus Terbaik 2011 pada Sabtu lalu.
Sekarang ini, masih lagi berlangsung peraduan Lagu Berduit Suria FMsehingga 1 April depan yang menawarkan pendengar wang tunai RM70,000.
Pendengar hanya perlu mendengar rancangan Breakfast@Suria untuk mengetahuilagunya. Apabila lagunya berkumandang di radio dalam apa sahaja segmendi Suria FM, hantarkan jawapan menerusi khidmat pesanan ringkas (SMS)dengan menaip LB dan hantar ke 33988.
SMS yang terpilih akan dihubungi oleh deejay bertugas dan setiap jawapan yang betul akan melayakkan pendengar memenangi sebahagian wang tunai RM70,000.
Pendengar bertuah juga bakal memenangi lebih wang tunai di pusingan bonus jika mendengar Lagu Berduit dalam versi 'LIVE'.


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Why Couples Can Get Into Fight During Good Times



Our unresolved feelings suddenly come out not just when we fall in love but couple angeractually at the times when we are feeling really happy, and loved. At these positive times, couples may accidentally get into fight when it seems they will are in happy mood.
Most properly it happen when couple experience new things that generate happiness such as when they move into a new home, renovation, attend a graduation, celebrating a birthday, receive presents, go on a vacation, finish a assignment, going out to watch new movie, buy a new car, proposal for marriage with partner, make a lot of money, get a promotion, decide to spend a lot of funds, or making a lot of money.
During all of these special functions one or both partners may suddenly feel unexplained moods and reactions. Normally, they feel upset when either before, during, or right after the functions. It may be very insightful and meaningful of special functions for you and it also will reflect on how your parents experienced these functions as well as reflect on how you have experienced thesefunctions in your relationships.
The 90/10 Principle Of Happiness
By understanding how past unresolved feelings come out, it is easy to understand why we always being hurt by our partners. When we are unhappy, about 90 % of the unhappy is generated from our past and has nothing to do with what we currently thinking. Generally only about 10 % of our unhappy is something to do with our present experience.
For example, when our partner seems have critical of us and it hurt our feelings a little. But because we are mature enough we are can understand that they don’t meanparent agner to critical us or maybe we see that they had a bad day. This understanding can avoid their criticism from being too painful and prevent us don’t take it too personally. However when this criticism is continually occur it can be very painful and generated wounded feeling. As a result we are more exposed to our partner’s criticism due to the injured feeling from our past. It is painful because as a child we were criticized severely and partner’s criticism even more painful because it triggers our past feels as well.
During our childhood, we were not able to understand things because we were still native and we take all criticism, scold, and blame personally and blindly. When all these unresolved feelings from underage memory are coming up, we easily think that our partner’s comments as criticism, rejection, and blame towards us. Having adult discussions at these times is hard because everything seem to be misunderstood. When our partner seems critical on us, 10 % of our respond basic their effect on us and 90 % were basic to our past.
Let say, someone accidentally and gently bumping into you and hint your arm but you couple manage feelingdoesn’t hurt that much, right. Now assume that you have an open injury then someone starts hint at it or bumps into you, it sure feels pain. In the concept that appeals here, if unresolved feelings from our past are coming up, we will react more sensitive and respond more quickly than usual.
At the beginning of a relationship, boy and girl were not that sensitive however when come to unresolved feelings, they become different person. It only takes time for our past feelings to come out and when they do come out, we respond differently to our partners. If we manage to control this unresolved feeling, we could prevent 90 % of what is currently upsetting us and at the same increase our relationship to next level.


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Thursday, March 24, 2011

MIHAS 2011 8th International Halal Showcase

Expand your business horizon through MIHAS 2011


Join in the excitement and discover the global halal market with an exceptional difference at MIHAS 2011! Visit, Participate and Experience the 8th International Halal Showcase (MIHAS 2011) from 6-9 April 2011 at Kuala Lumpur Convention Centre, KLCC, Malaysia. MIHAS 2011 is your one-stop centre to the vast array of halal products and services offered by the industry players; a platform for information exchange, stimulating trade discussions, Halal certification services and a lot more. Step into the rewarding world of Halal and expand your business horizon!


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Lindsay Lohan Father Been Arrested

Authorities in Los Angeles say Lindsay Lohan's father has been arrested over allegations he held his girlfriend against her will and prevented her from calling police.
Sheriff's investigators say deputies were dispatched on a domestic violence call at 9 p.m. Monday to Michael Lohan's apartment.
A news release says the 51-year-old was booked for investigation of preventing a report of victimization, false imprisonment and infliction of corporal injury on a cohabitant, all felonies. Bail is set at US$200,000.
Authorities say the girlfriend refused treatment for minor injuries, but Michael Lohan was taken to a hospital after booking for a medical condition unrelated to the arrest.
He has a history of arrests in New York over allegations of harassment from ex-girlfriends.
The "Mean Girls" actress is reportedly estranged from her father.


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Refused A Kiss, 92-Year-Old Woman Fires Gun

All Helen Staudinger, 92, wanted was a kiss from the man she had a crush on.

And the Florida police say the love-starved granny wouldn't take no for an answer.

So she fired a semi-automatic pistol four times at her 53-year-old neighbour's house after he refused to kiss her, police said Tuesday.

"If my head would have been over just a little bit further, (a bullet) probably would have hit me in the back of the head,' the neighbour, Dwight Bettner, told Reuters.

Staudinger was in jail on Tuesday, a day after being arrested on charges of aggravated assault with a deadly weapon and shooting into a dwelling.

According to police report, Staudinger told deputies she went to Bettner's house in Fort McCoy, Florida, and refused to leave until he gave her a kiss. When he said no, they argued and she left angry.

Bettner said he was on the phone with his father moments later when he heard gunshots. One bullet went through a window, spraying him with glass.

The former law enforcement officer said his elderly neighbour had seemed attracted to him since he moved in six months ago.

"I've taken her trash out for her, just neighbourly stuff," Bettner said. "I guess she just took that as something else."


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Ketika Ia menjengah

Tuhan..
Ketika lidah bersenandung menyebut namaMu
Memohon, mengharap, memanggil..
Agar hati menjadi damai,
Agar jiwa merasa tenang..
Agar perasaan menjadi tenteram..
Agar saraf tidak lagi menegang..
Agar akal menjadi sejuk..
Agar keyakinan menjadi mantap..
Setiap yang bernafas di dunia ini mempunyai masalah masalah yang tersendiri. Adakalanya bila masalah datang mendadak dan berpanjangan , diri menjadi keliru dan panik. Makna hidup ada berbagai bagai. lengkapkanlah diri dengan ilmu pengetahuan dan pandangan jauh. Tanyalah pada diri , siapa kita yang sebenarnya.


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